As Ann Marie pointed out, bullying has become quite the topic in schools today thanks to a new law that purports to be the "fin du fin" of the issue – top down control from Concord with a strictly controlled law that does not allow for absolutely minimal "local control" over what happens in the schools.
Look, I can agree with sentiment. I was bullied in high school – I was one of the nerds. And contrary to today’s politically correct, pacifist education world, I solved the problem myself in a most incorrect fashion. No, I didn’t knock the snot out of my main protagonist; rather, a head lock was turned into a full Nelson and then I simply kept squeezing until he dropped. And cried. And cried some more. He never bothered me again. His friends left me alone, too. A mark was left on him, but not a physical one – it was unnecessary. The point was made, learned, and kept
Is that THE solution as well? No, and I willingly admit to such. It worked for me and in that situation. And I didn’t have to run to the Government (the teachers or the Administrators) to solve my problem, either. And I didn’t have to resort to perverting some base principles in doing so. I realize that today is a different time and place – at least that’s what others keep telling me. However, they seem to have this great problem in answering my question: sure and indeed – but do we have to have basic principles changed?
Funny think, principles. Often, base principles never changed – or shouldn’t be changed. So, in the context of the above, add this from this article in the Concord Monitor on this. Tell me, what’s wrong here? And what is the two principle that these seem to advocate for (one obvious and one not-so-obvious)?
‘If someone writes something mean about you on Facebook, your mom might tell you not to look at it or to just turn off your computer. But that doesn’t mean it won’t hurt you, because your friends can still look at it. And it might make it hard to go to school. So the mean person should get in trouble at school."…
…"A student should have the right to say what they want in a text message or e-mail, but not if it’s going to hurt someone’s reputation – like calling a person fat or stupid or saying that you hate them," a girl from a parochial school wrote. "I personally know someone who had that happen to her, and those comments never go away."
"The First Amendment gives us the right to say what we want in this country, but not if it affects our right to a safe environment," a local high school boy wrote. "I know a kid who doesn’t like to come to school out of fear."
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