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NH Gold Star Mother Nat Healy shares a few thoughts…
Growing up in the small city of Dover, N.H. scarcely ten years after WWII had ended we youngsters saw daily evidence of what happens in war. On the corner of Washington St. and Central Ave. a young man who had lost both legs in the war sat on a wheeled platform barely three inches off the sidewalk and sold pencils for a living. He was part of the landscape of my childhood with the full significance of his sacrifice not understood by my young mind but fifty years later as I recall the overwhelming loss that man endured and how it must have changed the course of his life it hits me. Writing this it chokes me up because now I understand the courage it took him to face his life on a day to day basis. He sacrificed his legs so that kids like me could hula hoop and rock and roll without fear.
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Back then Veterans Day was marked for us kids by a day off school and a parade. The nuns at St. Mary’s taught us the history of the day with the fact about the eleventh hour on the eleventh day of the eleventh month fascinating me. There was a certain calming neatness to those numbers that ended that awful "war to end all wars".
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Over the following years with one thing after another effecting it Veterans Day seemed to fade somewhat in significance and I, like so many others, treated it as just another day. Oh, I gave some thought to the men who fought, after all my father was one of them and my son was on active duty but considering the world’s makeup at the time , with the military being reduced and all ,the day passed with just a small tilt of the head. If you can think about holidays as colors Veteran’s Day would be gray. Maybe because its in the cold, gray month of November but it doesn’t have the same pizzazz or the color of, say July 4th or Memorial day, with their cookouts and fireworks.
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And, maybe, given the solemnity of the day that’s just how it should be.
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The complacency that had returned after 9/11 ended abruptly for my family in June two years ago when my son, Dan Healy was shot down in a helicopter by the Taliban and Al Quada while on a rescue mission. Even writing this today, typing those words, it seems surreal. How did a youngster from a little town in New England like Exeter ever end up in the mountains of an exotic, foreign country like Afghanistan? Simple. He joined the Navy and became a Navy SEAL. Then the bad guys – as he called them-blew up two buildings in NY.
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