I discovered a book in the Teen Room at the Nashua Library that promotes “sex work” as a career to trans-identified kids. I was horrified by what I read, and I requested that the library pull it from the shelves.
Here is an excerpt from Nashua Library Director Jennifer McCormack’s response justifying the decision to keep the book “You’re in the Wrong Bathroom” in the Teen Room:
School Library Journal describes it as an “exemplary book” and “an absolutely essential volume for Teens…”
The paragraphs that you have highlighted capture the findings of research done within the transgender community…
At no point in this chapter do the authors promote sex work as an option for readers of any age, the paragraphs that you noted reflect the lived experience of transgender sex workers as described to researchers.
Related: Nashua Library Book Promotes “Sex Work” for Trans-Identifying Teens
How can anyone read these excerpts from the book and say that it doesn’t promote “sex work”? I highlighted the persuasive words.
Transgender sex workers have consistently been in high demand and often find this type of work lucrative.
Transgender pornography – primarily transgender women with functioning penises, but also transgender men with vaginas – is among the most sought-after forms of pornography.
Transgender people also function as escorts and “kept women.” These individuals are often quite elegant, accompanying their clients to professional or cultural events;they may have brief or long-term relationships with clients. Some clients provide apartments and a monthly cash “allowance,” essentially hiring these women as private mistresses available on demand.
Many trans and cisgender people involved in the industry report it to be a rewarding profession. Rather than finding the work demaning or objectifying, many trans and cisgender people regard it as uplifting and sometimes approach the work believing they are providing moments of joy to lonely individuals who otherwise have few options for sexual or physical intimacy. Not everyone has the luxury of a partner. Some sex workers consider their trade akin to psychotherapy.
Sex workers who report a sense of empowerment also claim that this work provides body autonomy and sexual confidence. They feel desired and confident about their lives and bodies, and can raise large sums in short periods– money often needed for college or other expenses- leaving them free to pursue other activities without the drudgery of more time-consuming jobs.
These words describe what the vast majority of young people are looking for in a career? I cannot fathom how Director McCormack read that and concluded that the author is not presenting “sex work” as a desirable career.
On the positive side, I had also requested that the Nashua Library host a presentation by Jasmine Grace, who speaks about her experience as a survivor of sex trafficking, and the library agreed to host her in the fall.
I am going to appeal Director McCormack’s decision to the Nashua Library Board of Trustees. I can’t stand by while kids are encouraged to prostitute themselves.
