Parents who raise their daughters to recognize feelings of discomfort when a potential predator is approaching them, are now learning that school administrators are telling their daughters to ignore those warning signs.
Those who’ve worked in law enforcement will tell girls and women to never ignore those feelings, but now woke school administrators are telling girls the opposite. Just get over it girls. If you are not comfortable in a situation with biological males, we are going to force you to ignore those warning signs.
Maybe there are females who are perfectly comfortable with biological males sharing the restroom with them. Maybe there are biological males that would never harm or exploit this situation. But pushing and forcing females to ignore their natural instincts of modesty or danger are being groomed for predators who could harm them.
There are documented cases where males have posed as females to gain access to private areas in order to assault girls and women. Now school administrators are going to put school girls through a reprogramming training to get them to ignore the natural feelings that are there to protect them. And they wonder why we call them groomers–sexual predators must be thrilled.
In the Montgomery County schools in Maryland, administrators issued guidelines that say students can use whichever bathroom/locker room they feel matches their gender identity. They advise students who are uncomfortable with this policy to seek counseling to better understand gender identity.
You don’t make things more inclusive for one group by taking safety and privacy away from another.
When my own daughter and I were shopping many years ago, the male sales clerk was a bit creepy and talked to her in a way that seemed odd to me and her. While nothing happened, I talked to my daughter after that encounter and helped her identify those feelings of discomfort she was feeling. I told her to never ignore that. Some situations may not be dangerous, but I wanted her to never ignore a feeling that could possibly keep her out of a dangerous situation. I had read a book written by a police officer who said that too many women ignore those feelings, and end up as victim of a violent crime. Girls have already reported violent sexual assault by biological males posing as females to access the girls restroom. Now woke administrators are going to counsel young girls to ignore those red flags.
Check your school policy to see if your school board adopted Policy JBAB. This was a policy recommended by the New Hampshire School Boards Association years ago. While many schools rejected this dangerous and anti-parent policy, some New Hampshire schools still have this policy in place.
What has happened to the adults in charge of running some of our public schools? Instead of nurturing a girl’s natural protective feelings, they want to reprogram these girls which makes them easier targets for predators. Who decided that tearing down a girl’s natural feelings of modesty which can help protect her in a dangerous situation, was a good idea?
LISTEN TO YOUR GUT
This doesn’t sound like a practical way to keep yourself safe at all, does it? Well, perhaps not, but that doesn’t mean it’s not an important piece of advice to follow. Listen to your gut. When you feel that someone or something isn’t right, believe that feeling and get out of the situation as soon as you can. Don’t worry about appearing strange or rude – it’s far better to be thought of like this by someone than to be correct and then be attacked.
This instinct, ‘women’s intuition’ as it is often called (although everyone has it, not just women), is something that has been with humanity since we were living in caves, and it kept us safe from predators back then. It’s like an animal’s instinct, except that, because our brains are bigger, we’ve persuaded ourselves that it’s nothing and that we should ignore it. Don’t do that; listen to that voice that tells you someone is strange and leave as soon as possible.
