No fury like a Mother scorned…

by Doug

A week after the Blue and Gold Star Mothers of New Hampshire gathered in Concord to rally in support of our troops and the Gathering of Eagles in D.C., our state capitol was the scene of another group and another cause. While last week’s group sought to support our troops and Nation all the way to the victory in the present war, this weekend’s group gathered in protest. Instead of offering a message of hope, love, and support, the group, antiwar peaceniks, consisting of a large number of public school students, offered up nothing but scorn on our Nation and a plan for retreat.
 
Sign reads "Not one more death. Not one more dollar."
They are barely old enough to fight or vote, but local high-school students showed yesterday that they are old enough to make their voices heard in loud opposition against the war in Iraq. Between 100 and 200 students, peace activists and passers-by demonstrated in front of the State House yesterday afternoon, in a rally organized by the peace clubs of Concord High School and Hopkinton High School, with the help of New Hampshire Peace Action and the American Friends Service Committee.
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"I think the war’s wrong, and we all do as much as we can do," said Hopkinton High School senior Will Merrow, who co-founded his school’s peace club. Merrow rallied the crowd, telling them if anyone could give him a reason why the country is in Iraq, he would get off the stage. "If not, I’ll stay up here until the death toll stops. We cannot and we will not take it any longer," he said.
In addition to singing peace songs and chanting slogans, the schoolchildren lined up empty shoes shoes in memory of those killed in Iraq. Reading of that in the Monitor article almost made me ill:

The students set up three long rows of shoes lining the path to the State House. In the middle was a row of lace-up army boots, each one labeled for a New Hampshire soldier killed in the war. Along both sides were even longer rows with names and ages of Iraqi civilians. A set of purple and white sneakers dedicated to 60-year-old Kinewa Abed Gasem Alasbae sat across from a pair of worn sandals labeled with the name of Nafia Aziz, 49.
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"The concern for Iraqi deaths is a testament to the humanity of the students involved in peace," said Anne Miller, director of New Hampshire Peace Action.
Many students said this was their first peace rally. They heard about it through flyers at school and through friends. Nat Nelson, a Concord High School senior, said he came because a friend invited him over Facebook.
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"This rally may have minimal impact, but compounding on each other, it’s one of the few easy steps we can take," he said. "It’s important to amass public opinion."
How scary is that sentiment? I thought the children were in school to llearn, not get indoctrinated. How can we as  a nation expect to win a generations-long war for survival if our very own children stand in opposition?
Late in the rally, 11-year-old Alicia Sanders-Zakre, a sixth grader at Rundlett Middle School, took the microphone and read songwriter John Denver’s "Peace Poem." Sanders-Zakre said she decided to speak because she believes everyone’s voice counts.
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"If you think I’m only one person and can’t make a difference, nothing happens," she said. "But if everyone works together and thinks they can make a difference, we can."
11 years old…
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And if you think you’re mad, you’re not alone. Instead of focusing on the shoes, focus on this picture of mothers supporting their sons and daughters one week earlier… And then read their reaction to the "peace" gathering and the coverage afforded it by the Concord Monitor versus the coverage (none) they gave the Mothers…
 
 
Writes Judi Paris:

TEENS DISHONOR OUR BELOVED SOLDIERS

Although previously told how disrespectful and dishonoring it would be to use empty shoes to signify Iraqi civilian deaths from the Iraq war, I see the various high school “peace” groups completely disregarded the advice given to them and used them anyway on Sunday. (Interestingly, a friend of mine asked one of the marchers if the empty shoes signified all of the Iraqis murdered by Sadam, and she replied that she didn’t know). So much for knowing what you’re participating in….
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The HS Peace groups literally “stole” a sacred military tradition of empty combat boots used to honor our fallen soldiers and probably (based on advice given to them), added one pair of combat boots supposedly showing respect to the NH soldiers who have lost their lives in Iraq. All the while, they’re committing psychological warfare against our American troops with little concern or sympathy for their feelings.
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How ridiculous the statement made by Will Merrow; i.e., “if anyone could give him a reason why the country is in Iraq, he would get off the stage.” (Obviously, a safe-statement while surrounded by like-minded people). “If not, I’ll stay up here until the death toll stops.”
Somehow I doubt that Mr. Merrow is still standing at the State House, but apparently he has been somewhat brainwashed by Ms. Miller’s la, la land “peace” agenda and her unrealistic viewpoint that “terrorists” should find “common ground” and use “diplomacy” with us even though they have little respect for any life (including their own) and are more than willing to blow themselves up and take innocents with them.
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Too bad Ann Miller doesn’t care as much about her own country and the American soldiers protecting her as she does about the Iraqis. Perhaps she should consider permanently moving to Iraq since she has much more compassion for them.
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And, yes, Ms. Schoenberg your quote from Mr. Merrow; i.e., “it’s one of the few EASY (emp. mine) steps we can take” speaks volumes since their original march was re-scheduled from the same, snowy day that many veterans and pro-support our troops people did show up at the Concord State House since we’re not so easily deterred by a little weather and so focused on our own comforts.
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Thank goodness our soldiers are braver and willing to make personal sacrifices even for these youth who haven’t lived (nor experienced life) long enough to really understand the disgrace of their actions against their own countrymen.
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Judy Paris
Karen Thurston writes of the Monitor’s non-coverage of the rally in support of victory:
I contacted the Monitor today and was told they didn’t cover the Gathering of Mothers because they were too busy.
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I asked if they thought that this article was appropriate to print. After all my son spent a year patrolling streets in Mosul to make neighborhoods safe for children to play and the mothers to travel to get food. I was very disturbed that they would allow an article with such detail to be printed, especially the " Several adults walked around dressed as larger-than-life Iraqi mothers, draped in black fabric holding "bloodied" white cloth representing an Iraqi baby".
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Being quiet about this is not an option, I will not sit quietly be and accept this portrayal that even hints that my son or any of his fellow soldiers are baby killers! One of our Gold Star Mothers is very upset that her son’s name was on a pair of boots.
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They explained that they are just reporting the news and are not bias on anyone issue ~ Yeah right! We are asking for support in writing letters to the editor that this type of press is not appreciated.
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I am also concerned that this type of media is supported by local public schools using our tax dollars to support this type of gathering.
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In closing I did suggest that perhaps they could have collected up the shoes and sent them to the Iraqi people, I got very little response.
Way to go Karen! Holly Haas sent this to the Monitor:
I always thought that Monitor tended to be a more liberal media source and after reading the coverage given to the Peace Rally held this past weekend I would say that they fall squarely into the category of printing what sells. The Monitor neglected to cover another side of the story. On March 17th the Blue and Gold Star Mothers held a Support Our Eagles – Past, Present and Future vigil. The NH Peace Coalition was to hold a rally that same day, however due to the snowstorm they decided to postpone their rally until the following week.  The Blue and Gold Star Mothers along with several members from veteran groups braved the weather to support our sons and daughters who are serving all over the world.  Some have even made the ultimate
sacrifice for us, including those who would use them from public display. A press release was sent out almost 2 weeks prior to this vigil, yet nothing appeared in the Monitor. 
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Instead I sit here tonight crushed that the high school that my child (who’s serving) just graduated from in 2005, would support and promote such a one-sided agenda to take place in their hallways. I can’t believe that flyers were handed out to invite students to the Peace Rally. If the schools felt that it is okay to use my tax dollar for this, are they going to afford an opportunity for my Sailor to come in a talk and meet freely with the students, as well as hand out information about the military?
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I’m most saddened that my son serving is all but forgotten in the halls of Concord High. Do the school officials feel that the student body should forget that he and other’s of that alma mater are there because they know in their hearts that they are making a difference. The Monitor’s covering of the rally held on March 25th accomplished what it set out to do…It sold papers, it clearly showed one side of the story. It showed little regard for those whose families are serving.  
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There is one thing I am sure of, my son would have written home and asked for shoes for the children to wear instead using them to gain pity from those around him. He also understands respect for a fallen comrade and never would have lowered himself to using the disrespectful display that adorned the State House grounds. 
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America is Home of the Free, Because of the Brave!  Support Your Troops!
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Fondly,
Holly Haas
Finally, there’s this:
Dear Editors of the Concord Monitor,
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Shame on you for the article you printed in the Concord Monitor, March 26th edition, "We cannot and will not take it any longer".  According to the Concord Monitor, when contacted by the president of the NH Blue Star Mothers, you stated that you are not bias on any one issue.  Let me ask you then, why was the "Gathering of Mothers" not covered by your paper the weekend before on the Capital grounds?  Oh Yeah….the question was asked, I know the answer. The Concord Monitor response was that you were all "too busy" to cover that story!!
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In my opinion, The actions by the NH Peace Action, The American Friends Service Committee and the Peace Clubs of Concord High School and Hopkinton High School along with the Concord Monitor committed nothing less than an act of Treason.  Gasp!!!…..Before anyone starts accusing me of deformation of Character, know the definition of Treason.

"TREASON – This word imports a betraying, treachery, or breach of allegiance. The Constitution of the United States, Art. III, defines treason against the United States to consist only in levying war against them, or in adhering to their enemies, giving them aid or comfort. "

Now, you tell me that this event sponsored by the above supporters and reported by your paper does not give aid and comfort to the enemies of the United States of America !
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Like it or not we are at war.  My son, right now, is serving and risking his life as a member of the United States Army so that you can sleep each night in peace, safe from the harm our enemies would love to break through if it were not for my son and every son and daughter serving in the armed forces of our precious and wonderful country.
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I am sure that this letter will find its way to the trash can instead of being considered for printing in your paper, but know this isn’t the only place you will find this letter.  With the help of true Americans everywhere, this letter will find itself read around the world before your next edition makes it to press.
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Was this event considered news?  Yes, it was….as was the event of the "Gathering of Mothers" in support of our troops.  Until you can cover both sides of an issue such as this, you cannot  claim that your paper is not bias on any one issue.
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Carol Patey
As the title says, there is no fury like a mother scorned. Especially the mother of a soldier.

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  • Rep. AL Baldasaro

    I felt, this message (e-mail) was so true and important to Chris Wolfe who is a resident of Derry and I, to share with all concerned.
    What a slap in the face to those that gave some and the many that gave all.
    This message should be forward to every resident in New Hampshire.
    Semper Fi,
    AL Baldasaro
    State Representative
    Rockingham
    District 3
    Auburn & Londonderry
    1StSgt USMC
    Retired
    Service Officer
    American Legion Post 27
    The action of the house democrat leadership and the democrat majority is embarassingly shameful. For those who grew up in the Vietnam era, this is a throwback to the ignorance of the “peace generation.” We all had hoped we had left this mentality behind.
    The action of the democrat majority house provides clarity to the fact that they and Carol Shea-Porter play only to their “constituents” and not the betterment of the entire NH citizenry. We are so misrepresented.
    C. Wolfe
    Derry
    Feel free to forward this along. The debate was so disappointing, but our Republicans did a great job standing up for our troops. Streaming audio of the debate should be online at the house website tomorrow at this link: http://www.gencourt.state.nh.us/live/default.html
    House Turns its Back on NH Military
    Calling it the “saddest day of his life as a legislator,” House Republican Leader Mike Whalley today joined nearly 150 of his Republican colleagues in formally protesting a House vote opposing President George W. Bush’s Iraq policy.
    “The Democrats in this House have clearly put politics above the interests of the men and women of this state who have put their lives on the line while serving in Iraq,” said Whalley. “With members of the military looking on from the House gallery, we embarrassed ourselves by passing a House Resolution that will have serious and detrimental effect on our soldiers deployed today, as well as our current veterans,” added Whalley.
    In an attempt to amend the resolution to better reflect the testimony given by New Hampshire citizens, House Republicans proposed an amendment which was also rebuffed by the Democratic majority. The amendment, supported by the State-Federal Relations and Veterans Affairs committee, would continue to support the troops while asking the President and Congress to fully fund veterans’ medical needs, as well as the need to pursue diplomatic avenues to end the present war in Iraq.
    With nearly 100 bills important to New Hampshire families, taxpayers and the business community, waited to be acted upon, the Democratic majority led a lengthy debate that, in the end, resulted in a toothless resolution that can only serve to undermine NH troops’ serving in Iraq.
    Rep. Pamela Coughlin, a member of the State-Federal Relations and Veterans Affairs committee, whose husband is serving his second tour of duty in Iraq, pleaded with her colleagues to support the committee amendment. “We sacrifice here at home with our husbands, wives, sons, daughters and neighbors. At the same time our NH soldiers are sacrificing with their very lives overseas. We should be encouraging our Congressional Delegation to support veterans’ benefits and expediting improvements to veterans’ facilities and not sending the wrong message,” she added.
    “The Democrat majority has only accomplished lowering troop morale and empowering our enemies with this resolution. Military leaders make military decisions and politicians should stay out of it,” concluded Whalley.
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  • Carol Patey

    Doug, Your blog on “No Fury Like a Mother Scorned” was great. Thanks so much for adding the letters from our Blue and Gold Star Mothers. The Concord Monitor never did copy my letter in full like you did. Now that I know you are here, I’ll be checking in often. I like your style!!
    A new fan,
    Carol Patey

  • http://www.granitegrok.com doug

    Thanks for your kind words, Carol. And thanks for letting me print your letter. You guys (Moms & friends) are doing amazing work. Important work. We need to show our support for the troops, and yes, we need to stand firm and WIN THIS WAR, DAMMIT!

  • Fred Evil

    So Doug, what do you mean by ‘WIN THIS WAR’? What does a win mean? Not trying to be sarcastic, I seriously want you to tell me what we need to accomplish that we haven’t already, and hopefully it’s something we are still ABLE to accomplish. From what I can tell, anyone who thinks this was has gone on long enough apparently is a defeatist, an America hater, and might as well be a French Surrender-Monkey. What I want to know is, what will you call a win? Since anything other than doing exactly what Bush says instantly means we lose, or surrender, or whatever.

  • Johnny “Get Your Gun” Patriot Boy

    I think winning means
    America gets all the oil.
    We leave.
    Let the stupid sand *&*&(*r* kill them selves.
    We gather all the democrats in America, put em on trial, find em guilty, execute.
    Win win win.
    Johnny the real American!
    Semper Fi
    Love you Mom

  • Amy

    I am disgusted at your idea of treason, Carol Patley! What has every young man, woman or child in Iraq done to deserve being called our enemy. I do not beilive that it has even been proved Iraq was behind 9/11. So we are now holding a war with country that might not have ever attaked us, and we have killed hundreds of thousands of possibly innocent people! I thought the USA’s policy was “innocent until proven guilty”.And yet it is treason to protest against the slaughter of babies and children daily?I am not against your son at all. Infact I want to bring him home safely and stop all this killing. I agree that this is a wounderful preacious country. It is just in the wrong hands and making many mistakes. I just hope we can learn from this mistake.

  • Aaron

    Reading this, I was very interested in seeing your point of view on the topics, but I kept waiting for an explanation as to why the anti-war protesters’ method of demonstration was wrong. You write disparagingly of the shoes and boots but give no explanation beyond disrespect and the idea that Iraqi children probably need shoes.
    The protesters are clearly concerned about the death of Americans and Iraqis. Aren’t you? It seems reasonable that a U.S. citizen would be troubled by a foreign policy that results in the deaths of fellow citizens, and in my opinion, a policy that results in anyone’s death. Your demonstrations are in “support” of the troops, but what kind of support tells someone to stay in a situation that will get them killed? What exactly are they doing? I thought President Bush had declared, “Mission accomplished!” The U.S. has killed Saddam Hussein. Osama bin Laden is still out there, but last we knew, he was in Afghanistan, not Iraq. We are fighting terrorists who follow fundamentalist Islam, and that’s going to be around for at least as long as fundamentalist Christianity – we’re not going to destroy it no matter how long we stay in Iraq.
    When someone mourns the death of soldiers and insists that the living ones be kept out of harm’s way, I think it shows sincerity in their mourning. When someone mourns the death of soldiers and insists that more of them risk dying, it strikes me as false. Even if the war is just, it is perfectly honorable and ethical to be in favor of a solution that doesn’t involve people dying.
    And while the Iraqi children may need shoes, I’d go so far as to say that they’d rather go barefoot and not have a foreign army killing them. I don’t mean to call anyone’s family members “baby-killers,” but if you don’t think innocent civilians (including children) get shot and killed by both sides, you have a lot to learn about war.

  • Amy

    Thank you, Aaron! I completely agree!

  • Will

    As a member of our armed forces, this is a pretty touchy subject, as anyone can imagine.
    Although I could write novels about all the subjects covered in this blog, I think the only one I want to touch on is “Supporting our Troops”. The catch phrase of every politician out there right now. If you want to support our troops..you, the one reading this…then continue making your opinion heard. Continue fighting for what you believe in. If you feel the US should stay in the middle east then let it be known, if you think we should leave then start talking about it. But for godsakes, do not turn against one another. The last thing I would ever want to face when returning from a deployment is my own countrymen against one another and against me.
    I’ve been thanked in airports and had my meals paid for. I’ve alsow been boo’ed and protested.
    If you have a problem with how the government, our government, uses it’s troops then write a letter to you representative. Starts petitions, write blogs, whatever! But whether it’s a private, sailor or airmen just out of boot camp, or even some Captain or Lietenant, do not blame them. I, we, joined in service to our country. In service to all of you.
    If you truly want our troops home safely, then support them. Don’t mark them as murderers or baby killers. If you want our troops home, then make sure they have a home to come to. I know that I wont go fight a war, then have to come home to fight one against my own people.
    I am rambling, but that’s how I feel on the matter. I love my country. I love that fact that myself and all of you have the freedom to write and say whatever we wish, because we demand it of our government, and our government protects that right with all the members of it’s military.

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